<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45887929483077607</id><updated>2011-06-08T01:21:19.837-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Pat Love &amp; Associates</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://patloveandassociates.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/45887929483077607/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://patloveandassociates.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Kathleen McFadden</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45887929483077607.post-4828045894229199104</id><published>2008-05-01T18:46:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-05-01T18:50:24.463-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Pat Answers Your Questions</title><summary type='text'>Q. You say in your book, "How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It," that talking about a relationship doesn't work because of her fear and his shame. Could you explain this theory for us?      A. The females of most species of social animals have a greater sensitivity to fear, which helps them serve as the alarm systems of the social group. The males of most species of social </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/45887929483077607/posts/default/4828045894229199104'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/45887929483077607/posts/default/4828045894229199104'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://patloveandassociates.blogspot.com/2007/06/pat-answers-questions-about-her-new.html' title='Pat Answers Your Questions'/><author><name>Kathleen McFadden</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author></entry></feed>
